The Loneliness and Escapism

‘Hi.. wasup???’

‘Hey.. u der…?’

‘brb’… ‘ ttyl’… ‘gm’… ‘gn’…

Short msgs (messages :P)… shorter life… shortest time…” We are too busy in making ourselves BUSY!!!”😛

We have Facebook… The real FAKE BOOK where people always show the fake faces, also GTalk where people will always do GOOD TALKs.. Every one is so busy and whenever they get lil bit time, they keep themselves engaged with this FAKE BOOK and GOOd TALK. These things keeps them away from themselves ot they intentionally do it because they don’t want to be with themselves.

It results in two states : Loneliness or Escapism…. or Both…

Blank, Dark, Empty mind….. Loneliness
Escapism is the feeling when you escape from yourself. You are afraid of being with you but it is the time when you need the most of yourself. You escape from truths because you don’t want to accept it.

Loneliness is something different. Loneliness keeps you away from others while escapism keeps away from yourself. Loneliness is gloomy and Escapism is full of fake colors. To keep our self busy, we keep on faking to others and lying to ourselves that we are fine, we are good. And the most is We are enjoying.. but the reality is a one liner by my friend Nitin Pathak  – Smile is always there, its  the Happiness that is missing…😦

The busy state of mind tries to take control of emptiness of heart but its the feelings that always takes over. This is the reason why Lonely people are most silent ones and the people who are escaping are always trying to be with someone all the time so that they have no time to be with themselves.They become numb, lifeless from inside because they are always alive in outer world. but inside,  its Killing silence…..

Laughing with others, crying with ME… Talking to others, avoiding ME… Caring for others, Ignoring ME… Living for others, dying in ME…

[ Dear whoever reading this…. sorry i tried to write bt its not happening again… :P]

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  1. Damn Good! Touchy! crispy! crunchy! 😉
    stop not!
    In life sometimes feel just like that:
    …keeps the rags of lordship once he owned,
    his world-dominion by creative act:
    not his to worship the great Artefact.”
    i.e.
    Mythopoeia {poem} takes the position that mythology contains spiritual and foundational truths, while myth-making is a “creative act” that helps narrate and disclose those truths.

    keep writing !😀

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  2. a simple truth which denied by all
    very well said and amazing philosophy abt that
    now i have to say
    keep “try” to write
    “Living for others, dying in ME…” wow…amazing

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  3. Dear shruti ,

    a real mirror to horrible scenario today!
    Yes , Its true. I DO.
    I also love, I also loose and I also suffer… and I fear of answering myself the Questions … about the blunders i did, about the wrong decisions i took, about the one i loved who left me, about the way i living the life…
    and so , I am alone.. or i love to be alone!
    perhaps working, keeping myself busy-overburdened partially helps me escaping …
    but my inner soul aches when alone it pains..

    so again i do escape …
    on facebook, on GTALK i just try to be in crowd of friends, just to get rid of myself!

    may be.. may be not!!!

    honestly- YES I DO….🙂

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    heart touching expressions to feelings!

    ” Dear whoever reading this…. sorry i tried to write bt its not happening again.”
    — Dear, you are not writing you are living your own feelings in form of words i feel!🙂

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  4. Nw this is Shruti trademark observation style..

    Perfect observation and nice post… super like…… Just height of observation like in her own blog “Don’t overestimate ME…..”….

    And Shruti has strong skill to cheer u up or can drive u in dark zone by her writing and observation…. Example of cheer up writing by Shruti is in her old posts.. very very old posts…. but its thr…..

    aa blog vaanchya pa6i ek line 6 jene thoda change sathe lakhu 6u..

    “Ye Diljalon ka mela hai…
    Yahan har koi akela hai…..”

    But as like movie Rockstar joya pa6i jem lage ke kaink khute 6 tem aa blog adhuro lage…. something is missing.. wat is missing..? yes solution is missing…. most of loko no aa ja haal 6… to aanu solution shun..? shun hoy te aa banda ne perfect idea nathi…. pan koik no saath and haathon main ho haath.. ya phir mann ne game tevi activities ke Goal ke hobby hoi shake.. again may be aavu kaink solution hashe….. aapane pan aa mode man thi bahar nikalya nathi etle khabar nathi….

    and ha solution ni theme ne fit bese tevu song 6 “Let It Be… ” – frm movie desi boyzz…” ha tena badha lyrics perfect fit besata nathi.. but some lyrics and theme of its song is perfectly suitable… ek vaar sambhalava jevu kharu…..

    Again nice article.. and Thumbs up for observation.. ya ek point aama cover karava jevo hato.. It is BEING ALONE…..Lonely by choice….. not by force….

    P.S. .. Nuber of visitors reached more than 1700.. Haji hamna to thoda time pehala 1K visitors nu celebration chlatu hatu…. and have 2K ne cross thavani taiyaari 6..

    Congo to Meghdoot team 4 tht……… bas have 10 K bahu dur nathi…. best luck..🙂 ……..

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  5. Thank you all for the valuable comments… I will keep writing.

    @Bhums : Actually that last line “Dear whoever”.. was for draft only as I knew that you all will review it. So i kept it there.. At time of publishing the article, I forgot to remove dat…😛
    bt its published now so let it be…

    @Raghuvir : I knw the answer is missing bcoz I dnt have the answer, I m searching for it.. I dnt know whether i will be able to find or not bt one thing I want to mention here that this Loneliness would convert you into another personality… good or bad.. mostly Bad, so you should be very careful.. will definitely write the answer if i will find it.

    And really I am not so good writer, its because of all my very best friends that I am able to write up to this level.. would Like to thank all of them including all messengers of MountMeghdoot for giving me a chance to post my thoughts here…

    Will try again to ‘write’…..!!!!!

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